Exceptional Sales

Would you call a prospect 80 times if you knew you would eventually land their business?

April 18th, 2012

Yesterday I talked with a proven top sales performer.  I asked her to share her most recent success story.  She shared that she just landed a company that she had called 80 times in the last four years.  At first I thought that was pretty excessive, until I did the math.  She called  approximately every six weeks and four years later landed the client.  That is what I call persistence!

Please listen to my blog talk radio interview with Scott Love about how to make successful sales calls.  He talks about how we influence our prospects by our voice.  73% of a phone conversation is your tonality (pace, pitch, volume, inflection, pausing, attitude).

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/salescallreluctance/2012/02/15/what-it-takes-to-make-successful-sales-calls

Connie Kadansky, Sales Call Reluctance coach, 602-997-1101 or connie@exceptionalsales.com, helping salespeople get their ask in gear.

12 Types of Sales Call Reluctance

April 2nd, 2012

Some salespeople think that Sales Call Reluctance is just picking up the phone.  Telephobia is only one type of Sales Call Reluctance.

There are actually 12 distinct types of fear that can cause salespeople to avoid the prospecting. It is vital to know which of the 12 types of call reluctance is holding your sales career hostage. Do any of these sound familiar?

• Doomsayers will not take risks. This type of call reluctance can be lethal to a sales career.

• Over preparers tend to overanalyze and avoid action. They’re busy, busy, busy people busy with current clients, admin work, organizing files, studying the latest trends- which keeps them from meeting qualified prospects.

• Hyper-pro salespeople are obsessed with image, but when it comes to their presentation skills, they’re not better than the next salesperson. They look good, but they confuse packaging with prospecting.

• Stage fright causes many salespeople to default on prospecting that would lead to opportunities to present before groups.

• Role rejection plagues those who are secretly ashamed of any kind of selling. These are the salespeople who deflect any association with being a salesperson. They tend to believe that society dislikes salespeople, and they themselves get irritated and annoyed when salespeople solicit them.

• Yielders fear intruding on others. They have a strong need to be liked and are habitually waiting for “just the right time” to make contact. Of course, that time rarely arrives.

• Socially self-conscious salespeople are intimidated by up-market clients. They feel inferior in terms of wealth, education, status, or prestige.

• Separationists are afraid to mix business and friends.

• Emotionally unemanciapted salespeople are afraid to mix business and family.

• Referral aversion affects those salespeople who selectively forget to ask for referrals out of fear of disturbing existing relationships.

• Telephobic salespeople are uncomfortable using the telephone for prospecting.

• The oppositional reflex characterizes salespeople who tend to criticize or blame others for what goes wrong with their careers. Even though they are usually gifted, talented, and intelligent people, they don’t take responsibility for themselves and often don’t get ahead.

A solution for call reluctance

If you recognize yourself in any of these styles, you need not feel embarrassed or ashamed. But at the same time, you don’t have to go on living with it. Call reluctance is learned which means it can be unlearned. Most cases can be arrested or even eliminated. All can be improved.

The first, but often the most difficult, step in overcoming call reluctance is admitting that you are not prospecting consistently. Once you’ve admitted that to yourself, you can look at changing your attitudes. Call reluctance is simply a manifestation of a person’s negative beliefs about prospecting for new business – so overcoming it is all about learning to change your beliefs.

Thought realignment is a very effective tool for changing your thinking. Look at it this way: A belief is merely a thought you think over and over and over again. What you think determines how you feel, which, in turn, determines what you do (or don’t do). What you do everyday becomes your seemingly intractable habit.

Connie Kadansky, Sales Call Reluctance coach works one-on-one with all types of  salespeople. 602-997-1101 or connie@exceptionalsales.com

Second Step in Overcoming Sales Call Reluctance

February 17th, 2012

Becoming aware of Sales Call Reluctance is the First Step in Overcoming Sales Call Reluctance.

Aware of the fact that you are not prospecting and setting appointments.

The second step is to assess your Call Reluctance:

You can take a free assessment at:

http://www.exceptionalsales.com/salescallreluctance/your-prospecting-ekg-complimentary.html

Is your Call Reluctance Preventable? Manageable? Low Toxic? High Toxic? Severely Toxic?

Connie Kadansky, Sales Call Reluctance Coach helps salespeople get their “ask” in gear
connie@exceptionalsales.com
602-997-1101

Q & A Overcoming Sales Call Reluctance

January 31st, 2012

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Tips for Overcoming Sales Call Reluctance

January 5th, 2012

Tips for Overcoming Sales Call Reluctance:

  1. Be honest with yourself. Many people are more willing to admit they are alcoholic, than that they are sales call reluctant. Are you getting in front of qualified prospects consistently and comfortably? If not, why not? Many people want to hide and deny their call reluctance. Admitting they are call reluctant is the first step to overcoming the debilitating disease of prospecting.
  2. Observe your behavior on the sales call. Call reluctance shows up there, too. What happens when it is time to ask for the business? Do you shy away? Do you hope that if you are nice enough, they will ask to buy?
  3. (If you are making all the money you want and meeting your objectives, do not do this exercise!) Write down your self-defeating behaviors. Do you commit to making 50 calls a day and stop at 20? Do you get caught up in busy work so you can avoid prospecting? Do you lose business cards? Do you write a prospect’s name on a sticky note and then misplace it? Do you have selective forgetting when it comes to asking for referrals? Do you target avoid certain people? CEO’s? Lawyers? Doctors?
  4. Be able to clearly, concisely and confidently articulate your potential value to your prospect. If you can do this, you are not wasting your prospect’s time.
  5. Take an inventory of what you have to offer. Once you are convinced of your value, the process of prospecting becomes much easier because you are “sold” on you.
  6. Take the sales call reluctance assessment. A validated instrument can quantify specific challenges and suggest appropriate steps to address sales call reluctance issues.
  7. A powerful technique to overcome call reluctance is to capture what the self-critical inner voice is saying to you ON PAPER in YOUR HANDWRITING. Recognize this voice? It is an internal saboteur that must be defused. This hyperactive voice says things like, “I don’t want to intrude” or “I haven’t done enough research about their company.” “They are probably still at lunch.” Once captured on paper, write realistic responses to the critic’s claims. Engage the internal voice in written dialogue. For instance, “I may not be totally knowledgeable about their company, but I have the basics down.” Recognize the goal obstructing statements and counter those with goal supporting statements. Once an individual is willing to do these exercises, they are on the fast track to becoming incredibly comfortable prospecting.

If you would like to take the Prospecting EKG assessment, please email connie@exceptionaslales.com and we’ll send you the link.  Connie Kadansky, Sales Call Reluctance coach and trainer 602-997-1101

Want to feel better immediately about yourself?

November 18th, 2011

As salespeople if we are active in our marketplace every day we’ll have some type of challenge or obstacle; right?

How can you ensure that you’ll keep yourself in a good psychological place no matter what challenge arises?

I encourage my clients to start every day, seven days a week, writing down five things that they are deeply grateful for.  At first they are grateful for their family, their health, their house, etc.   However, as the days progress, they start recognizing the small things that they appreciate and their confidence soars, e.g. for the resource a friend shared, for a thoughtful compliment their client gave them, for their discipline to make a few cold calls.  Gratitude creates a magnetic energy.  Try it!  I guarantee you’ll feel better.  Feeling good about you is vital to your success.  Whether you know it or not, you radiate your feelings.  You cannot not fake it.  Your prospects pick up on your energy and your tone.  You don’t even have to say a word.

End your day with writing down five achievements for the day.  Salespeople do not stop to celebrate their achievements unless they is are grand slams, so to speak.  Recognizing and acknowleding your achievements will create a new energy for you.  I guarantee this also!  If you don’t feel better about you after doing this for a week, please contact me.  I’ll send you a $20 Starbucks gift card so that you can go have a cafe latte and contemplate your world.

Connie Kadansky, Sales Call Reluctance coach, 602-997-1101 or connie@exceptionalsales.com

While many salespeople sit and debate whether cold calling works, one of their competitors is making his calls

October 19th, 2011

Check out this Wall Street Journal blog.  One financial advisor has reconciled to the fact that it’s part his day.  His pitch is smooth.

http://blogs.wsj.com/financial-adviser/2011/10/18/cold-calling-isnt-out-of-style-for-this-adviser/?mod=google_news_blog

He obviously has high motivation and goals and zero Sales Call Reluctance!

Cold Call Success Story

September 30th, 2011

It amuses me beyond a chuckle, it’s almost hilarious when I hear people debating whether cold calling is dead or alive.

While they are debating, there are hundreds of salespeople making their calls and moving through their sales process.  For example, a former client and good friend, Betsy, is a salesperson for a circuit board manufacturer.  She consistently makes her prospecting calls.    Betsy cold called a prospect and her company had to add 160,000 sq. ft. of space to fulfill the order from the cold call.

What is your cold call success story?  Please share so that we can help more people succeed!

Connie Kadansky, helping salespeople get their ask in gear, 602-997-1101 or connie@exceptionalsales.com

How to make cold calls pay off!

September 19th, 2011

This is a must read for anyone in the sales profession.

http://www.forbes.com/sites/deborahljacobs/2011/09/06/how-to-make-cold-calls-pay-off/

What are your thoughts?  Please share!

If you suffer from Sales Call Reluctance, just know that you can overcome it by identifying exactly what your negative intruders (thoughts) are that keep you from prospecting.  Your freedom is in identifying what causes you to hesitate.

First Step in Overcoming Sales Call Reluctance

September 9th, 2011


One of the greatest coaches of all time is Phil Jackson (Chicago Bulls and L.A. Lakers) –  the “Zen Master.”

What can we learn from a Zen Master?  The first step is to be conscious and aware of your breathing.  When you get ready to prospect, put both feet solidly on the floor, sit up straight and take a deep breath in as you say to yourself  “I am breathing in.”  Then breathe out and say “I am breathing out.”  Just notice the powerful calm that comes over you.

Then say “I am breathing in calm.  I am breathing out confidence.”

Breathing will slow down the negative habitual thoughts that are swirling around and causing the mental spin.

Please try this and share your experience and comments.  Many of my macho male clients affirm that this works!

Connie Kadansky, Sales Call Reluctance coach, assists salespeople to become confidence and consistent at prospecting. 602-997-1101 or connie@exceptionalsales.com