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Re-wire your brain around prospecting!

Neuronet

You have trillions of neuronets in your brain. Which ones are connected to your prospecting activity?  When you think about prospecting, what is the thought that pops into your head?  Do you automatically think “opportunity!”  or do you think “well. . . I’m not good at prospecting.”

To overcome Sales Call Reluctance, you will have to re-wire your brain and create new neuronets around prospecting.  Sound a little complicated?  Well, it doesn’t have to be.  To overcome Sales Call Reluctance you will create new habits of thought!  Yes, habits of thought.

You won’t have to get to a place where you jump for joy when you think of prospecting. However, to create new habits of thought that are consistent and sustainable, I recommend you create new neuronets of “calm acceptance.”  Prospecting is simply a component of your sales career.  When you choose “acceptance” and stop pushing against prospecting, you will move forward with efficiency.

For help in any aspect of Sales Call Reluctance and Profitable Prospecting, call Connie at 602-380-5431, email her at [email protected]

Specializing in helping salespeople get their “ask” in gear!

Sales Call Reluctance is a registered trademark of Behavioral Sciences Research Press.

Is Self-Criticism Sabotaging Your Sales?

 Self-criticism80% of your success is due to your emotional intelligence, according to Daniel Goleman, Ph.D.

There are three components of emotional intelligence: (admittedly simplifying a complex subject!)

  • The ability to handle your feelings;
  • The way you communicate with YOU;
  • The way you communicate with others.

When is the last time you took a class or read a book about communicating with yourself?  Chapter 9 of Nonviolent Communication, by Dr. Marshall Rosenberg is a powerful chapter on connecting compassionately with ourselves.

Have you ever considered that you are violently communicating with yourself at different degrees of intensity and continuously keeping yourself off balance?

Torkom Saraydarian said that “self-criticsm builds a failure image in your mental sphere — it dominates your thinking and gradually makes you a failure.”

Eek!  What can you do today to start being kinder, gentler and more compassionate with you?

Prospecting is an emotional exercise and self-talk as a lot to do with overcoming Sales Call Reluctance.

For help in any aspect of Sales Call Reluctance and Profitable Prospecting, call Connie at 602-380-5431, email her at [email protected]

Specializing in helping salespeople get their “ask” in gear!

Successful People “Do it Now!”

yesterday today and tomorrow - Do it nowWhat is it about people who truly take action now?  There are three people who have been amazing examples to me and all three very successful.

They “Do it Now!”

Christine Harvey at www.christineharvey.com is the most successful businesswoman I know.  Written six books published in 23 different languages.  In her book In Pursuit of Profit she points out that successful people “take action NOW!”  They do not overanalyze and dilly dally. They do not wait for a better time.

How much more successful would you be if you would just “do it now?”

Jerry Kadansky at www.jerrykadansky.com is my daily role model.  This man moves.  He immediately returns phone calls.  If he meets with a prospect at 5:30 p.m., he’ll have followed through on his next step commitment before 7:00 a.m. the next morning and sometimes sooner.  When he’s meeting with a client and they need to talk with the architect, Jerry calls the architect NOW and sometimes the architect happens to be available to run by the jobsite NOW. The next steps are agreed to and the job moves rapidly forward.

The third person who is Mr. Action is Somers White at www.somerswhite.com.  One time when I was in Somers’ office, he got a call for a potential speaking engagement.  WIthin 15 minutes he had the proposal and all the collateral material necessary in a Federal Express package to be picked up.  His system was streamlined. He acts on opportunity NOW!

How would your life be different if you started practicing “do it now?”  What is your next step?

Share with us your victories!

For help in any aspect of Sales Call Reluctance and Profitable Prospecting, call Connie at 602-380-5431, email her at [email protected]

Specializing in helping salespeople get their “ask” in gear!

Are you sold on you?

Making a list

Sometimes when salespeople experience Sales Call Reluctance, they are also suffering from not being convinced of their value and/or the value of their products or services.  This makes prospecting even more challenging.

Recently after a speaking engagement, a furniture salesperson approached me and admitted to Sales Call Reluctance.  The more I spoke with her it became evident that she was not connected to her value.  After lengthy conversation she revealed that she had 17 years of interior design experience.  It was like pulling teeth to get her to reveal her strengths.

I recommended she make a list of a minimum of ten reasons why people would benefit from her expertise, products and services.  Grab your pen.  What are ten reasons why people should buy from you?  Share your list with us.

Who is the hardest person to sell?  Yes, it’s you being sold on you!

For help in any aspect of Sales Call Reluctance and Profitable Prospecting, call Connie at 602-380-5431, email her at [email protected]

Specializing in helping salespeople get their “ask” in gear!

How to Overcome Sales Call Reluctance

When is the last time you were at a restaurant and a young couple at the next table were having a deep discussion and you eavesdropped on their juicy conversation?  In order to listen you had to get real quiet; right?

If you want to overcome your Sales Call Reluctance, you need to eavesdrop on YOU!  Get real quiet and listen to how you are communicating with you.  When you are getting ready to pick up the phone to make a prospecting call and you stop. Take a deep breath, get present and identify the thought that is causing you to stop.  It is vitally important that you identify the thoughts that cause you to stop.  “They are already working with another vendor.”  “I don’t know what to say.”  “They get 10,000 calls a day from people like me.”

Yikes!  No wonder prospecting is not working because you have a battle going on in your head.  You want to get in front of more prospects, but all the negative thoughts cascade in on you like a negative Niagra Falls. You don’t know how to handle your feelings that your thoughts are creating so you immediately get busy on unproductive activities. Another day goes by and you have not made any appointments.

The only way through obstacles is to identify them.  These thoughts are your internal obstacles.  Right now, grab a pen and write down the internal obstacles that are sabotaging your sales.

Slowing down and quietening your mind is key!

Connie Kadansky Sales ExpertFor help in any aspect of Sales Call Reluctance and Profitable Prospecting, call Connie at 602-380-5431, email her at [email protected]

Specializing in helping salespeople get their “ask” in gear!

Sales Call Reluctance is a registered trademark of Behavioral Sciences Research Press.

Are You Afraid To Prospect?

Fork in the road

Sales Call Reluctance is the emotional hesitation to prospect.  If you are afraid to prospect, what is the first step in overcoming your Fear?

Admit it!  It’s nothing to be embarrassed about.  Living with it needlessly is.  Take a deep breath, and say to yourself “I experience fear when I think about prospecting.”  It’s okay — Hiding, denying and suppressing your fear is costing you BIG dollars and confidence.

Next step.  Assess your call reluctance.  Please take a free prospecting EKG at https://www.exceptionalsales.com/services/workshop-training/your-prospecting-ekg-complimentary/.  How did you score?

Now, if you want to take the next courageous step, invest in the diagnostic assessment so that you can find out exactly what type of Call Reluctance (there are 12 types) you suffer from and to what degree of intensity.  Many people are too harsh in their self-criticism and find out that they are over-dramatizing their call reluctance issues.  There is a financial investment to take the official SPQ Gold assessment . It includes an in-depth coaching session. This diagnostic can relieve you of much fear and stress and give you strong direction in moving forward.

The Psychology of Sales Call Reluctance is a textbook that includes the behavioral prescriptions to overcome Call Reluctance.  It is a world’s best seller and is content rich.  Highly recommend you purchase this book. (If you invest in the assessment, the book is included)

For help in any aspect of Sales Call Reluctance and Profitable Prospecting, call Connie at 602-380-5431, email her at [email protected]

Specializing in helping salespeople get their “ask” in gear!

Are you building your goodwill chest?

Chest with money

Has there ever been a better time to build up your chest of goodwill?  I challenge you today to reach out and appreciate five (5) people in some way that has nothing to do with your prosperity.  Get creative!  Maybe it’s writing a recommendation for someone on www.linkedin.com, emailing a resource to someone who you KNOW will be delighted to receive it, send a personal hand-written note to someone who has been instrumental to your success, do something special for a family member who is least expecting it!  When our economy gets moving along nicely again (which it will) you will have built a chest of goodwill!  The future of the world lies in the hands of men and women of goodwill.

Connie Kadansky, www.exceptionalsales.com

I help salespeople get their “ask” in gear!

Is accountability what is missing in your performance equation?

Head in sand

What system do you have in place to keep you accountable?  Even the most motivated and goal oriented people have systems to keep them accountable.  My commitments to my mastermind partners keeps me in tension and on purpose.  My commitment to my coach keeps me full speed ahead. Accountability and responsiblity are hallmarks of successful people.  Coaching relationships can be powerful in that you customize and design accountability systems that work best for you!  Your confidence soars when you make commitments, take the action and reap the rewards of your actions.  Please share what works best for you to keep you accountable.

Self-Improvement is Out of Style

Yes, it’s true!!  You can polish yourself up, adjust yourself a bit – and “improve” a tad and still essentially be the same person with the same business. These times call for transformation.  The business world is transforming before our very eyes and it will never return to what it “used to be.”

Transformation starts from within.  Instead of thinking of what you need to “do” – the real question is who do you need to “be” in order to achieve your goals?  To start this process, fill in the dot, dot, dot.  I am at my best when. . . (list a minimum of ten things).  For example, I am at my best when I am meeting with clients.  I am at my best when I keep my word to myself.  I am at my best when I have appointments with prospects on my calendar.  I am at my best when I have a plan for the day.   Keep adding to your list.  Type it up and make several copies and placing them strategically around your office, car and home.  Your mind will act upon your ideals.  You will focus on identifying with your ideal and being at your best and you just may “live up to it!” 

Never Cold Call

I get a kick out of sales trainers who promote “never cold call.” Yes, every week at least one person emails me with sales trainers tips about how salespeople should NEVER cold call.

I agree that in a perfect world. . . a salesperson who has set up their business ideally. . . could possibly never have to cold call.  However, who lives in a “perfect, ideal world” that they are so extremely good at what they do and their clients love them so much that they have a full sales pipeline of prospects consistently?  I know veterans who have been in the same industry for years, who are consistently prospecting — which yes, includes some cold calling.

This type of advice about “never cold call” gives some salespeople an excuse.