This might seem like I’m calling you out for being lazy, but it’s actually about showing yourself the same respect you give your best client.
You might feel like I’m judging your follow-through, but I’m not. I know what it’s like to start at the call block and suddenly remember the laundry.
If prospecting feels heavy, forced, or inconsistent, it’s probably not about time. It’s about self-respect.
Self-respect is the quiet force that says:
“My time matters. My word matters. I show up, because I’m worth it.”
When you’ve got that kind of respect for yourself, prospecting shifts.
It’s no longer something to get through.
It becomes something that builds you.
Every call, every message, every follow-up? That’s proof you’re living in alignment with your future—not reacting to your feelings.
Without self-respect, discipline becomes theatre. You perform it, but it doesn’t stick.
Because you’re trying to force the habit without becoming the person.
Self-respect precedes self-discipline.
Here’s how to start building that prospecting rhythm from a place of self-respect:
1. Pre-Decide or Backslide.
Don’t wake up and hope you’ll feel “motivated.” That’s a coin toss—and motivation is famously fickle. Instead, schedule your prospecting block the day before. Prep the list. Prime the pump.
When 9 AM hits, you’re not choosing, you’re doing. It’s a pre-loaded habit loop.
2. Marie Kondo Your Pipeline.
If that lead hasn’t replied in three months and your gut says “meh,” it’s clutter, not a candidate.
And while you’re decluttering, tidy up your inner dialogue:
Replace “I suck at this” with “I’m learning every conversation I initiate.”
Small shift. Big neurological payoff.
3. Say “No” Like a Pro. Say “Yes” Like You Mean It.
People-pleasing is the enemy of peak performance.
Set boundaries like you’d set sales quotas—firm, clear, and non-negotiable.
A calendar that’s full of everyone else’s priorities leaves no room for yours.
4. Invest Like an Owner, Not a Tourist.
Read the book. Invest in a coach. Go to events where your ideal prospect attends.
This isn’t indulgence—it’s compound interest.
You’re either investing in your future self, or you’re funding your future frustration.
5. Forgive Fast. Reset Faster.
Missed a block? Zoned out on LinkedIn? Cool. You’re human.
But don’t build a narrative around it—build a plan.
Forgiveness clears the slate. Resetting sets the direction.
6. Choose Your Tribe Wisely.
Behavior is contagious. So is mediocrity.
Surround yourself with folks who challenge you, not coddle you.
Your circle should push you to play bigger, not validate your smallest self.
Now, for the Sales Managers and VPs:
If your team is inconsistent with prospecting… it’s not a discipline problem. It’s a negotiation problem.
Your reps aren’t just dialing numbers.
They’re negotiating attention. Trust-based Influence. Time. Truth.
And most of them are winging it.
That’s why deals stall. Prospects disappear. Pipelines flatline.
Prospecting is a negotiation.
So, if your team doesn’t know how to negotiate early and often, they’re losing the deal before it even starts.
Here’s the fix:
Train them in negotiation—right where it counts:
Prospecting.
This isn’t theory. It’s a practical, high-impact class designed for your 5–6 reps who are ready to step up.
They’ll walk away able to:
- Start conversations that unfold truth-telling by the prospect
- Get real responses to vague objections
- Create urgency without pressure
- Turn “just checking in” into “let’s move forward.”
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You’ll see testimonials, specifics, and next steps.
Call me directly to reserve your team’s spot. We customize the training to the exact objections your reps hear every day.
Because the question isn’t if your prospects are talking. It’s who they’re talking to.
Salespeople:
Ready to stop forcing discipline and start building self-respect that actually fuels prospecting?
Start with one promise. One calendar block. One call. Then repeat.
If you knew that investing in a 1:1 coach would significantly improve your sales, would you inquire? Are you opposed to giving me a call?
Sales leaders:
If your reps are prospecting without negotiation skills, you’re leaving deals on the table.
Give me a call and let’s talk about nitty gritty measurable specifics.