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What if the Real Reason You’re Stuck in Sales Isn’t What You Think?

Every salesperson wants results yesterday.

When there’s a lull—or worse, a dry spell—we double down. More calls. More emails. More doing what’s always been done… hoping the old magic sparks again.

But what if it’s not about tactics?
What if the engine driving all your activity—your motivation—has quietly run low?

The SPQ Gold Assessment measures your motivation—your physical and psychological energy to prospect and create new business.

In other words… how much gas is in your tank?

Now here’s the twist:

Have you ever considered that your physiology impacts your psychology?

That the body you walk around in—your habits, sleep, hydration, nutrition, movement—might be quietly influencing your mindset and performance more than you know?

Before you blame the market, your leads, or your manager, pause. Reflect. Ask yourself:

  • How rested am I, really?
  • Do I hydrate like a high-performer or like a cactus?
  • Am I moving my body or letting it stagnate?
  • When do I feel most alive and creative during the day?
  • What food fuels me vs. fogs me?
  • What does my body feel like right before I procrastinate?
  • Is stress my default mode?
  • How often do I breathe deeply, on purpose?
  • Do I permit myself to pause?
  • Am I operating out of fear or possibility?
  • Do I feel like I’m thriving—or just surviving?
  • When was the last time I felt fully motivated without forcing it?

We aren’t machines. We are sales athletes.

And energy—real, renewable energy—is the name of the game.

If you’re feeling off, tired, or emotionally disconnected from the hunt… it’s time to look under the hood.

Let’s get your gas tank full again.

And let’s make sure you’re selling from a state of clarity, creativity, and confidence—not survival.

The SPQ Gold Assessment doesn’t just give you a score. It gives you a wake-up call.

You can binge every podcast, show up to every webinar, sit front row at conferences, and take all the sales training in the world—but if you don’t have sustainable physical and psychological energy, your behaviors won’t shift. And your results? They’ll likely stay right where they are.

Perhaps the only change required is within your own perceptions. Inward change is the only effective change anywhere. All outer change begins within. What you can change is within you. All the willpower in the world is not sustainable if you have physical, emotional and mental habits that do not serve you.

Ready to stop hiding, denying, and suppressing what’s really going on in your new business development?

Good. Then here’s your move:
Get honest. Get curious. And get assessed.

Because you can’t out-hustle what you haven’t identified.

The SPQ Gold isn’t fluff. It’s a mirror.
And the ball? It’s officially in your court. What are you going to do with it?

Connie Kadansky
Sales Call Reluctance Coach – 602-380-5431
The only Master Certified Coach licensed in the world’s only assessment that measures the fear of prospecting for new business, motivation, goal level, focus, and how comfortable or uncomfortable you are when you are in a sales conversation with a prospect.

The Image is from the book Coherence: The Science of Exceptional Leadership and Performance, by Alan Watkins, M.D.

Self-Respect Fuels Follow-Through: The Real Reason Prospecting Feels So Hard

This might seem like I’m calling you out for being lazy, but it’s actually about showing yourself the same respect you give your best client.

You might feel like I’m judging your follow-through, but I’m not. I know what it’s like to start at the call block and suddenly remember the laundry.

If prospecting feels heavy, forced, or inconsistent, it’s probably not about time. It’s about self-respect.

Self-respect is the quiet force that says:

“My time matters. My word matters. I show up, because I’m worth it.”

When you’ve got that kind of respect for yourself, prospecting shifts.
It’s no longer something to get through.
It becomes something that builds you.
Every call, every message, every follow-up? That’s proof you’re living in alignment with your future—not reacting to your feelings.

Without self-respect, discipline becomes theatre. You perform it, but it doesn’t stick.
Because you’re trying to force the habit without becoming the person.

Self-respect precedes self-discipline.

Here’s how to start building that prospecting rhythm from a place of self-respect:

1. Pre-Decide or Backslide.
Don’t wake up and hope you’ll feel “motivated.” That’s a coin toss—and motivation is famously fickle. Instead, schedule your prospecting block the day before. Prep the list. Prime the pump.
When 9 AM hits, you’re not choosing, you’re doing. It’s a pre-loaded habit loop.


2. Marie Kondo Your Pipeline.
If that lead hasn’t replied in three months and your gut says “meh,” it’s clutter, not a candidate.
And while you’re decluttering, tidy up your inner dialogue:
Replace “I suck at this” with “I’m learning every conversation I initiate.”
Small shift. Big neurological payoff.


3. Say “No” Like a Pro. Say “Yes” Like You Mean It.
People-pleasing is the enemy of peak performance.
Set boundaries like you’d set sales quotas—firm, clear, and non-negotiable.
A calendar that’s full of everyone else’s priorities leaves no room for yours.


4. Invest Like an Owner, Not a Tourist.
Read the book. Invest in a coach. Go to events where your ideal prospect attends.
This isn’t indulgence—it’s compound interest.
You’re either investing in your future self, or you’re funding your future frustration.


5. Forgive Fast. Reset Faster.
Missed a block? Zoned out on LinkedIn? Cool. You’re human.
But don’t build a narrative around it—build a plan.
Forgiveness clears the slate. Resetting sets the direction.


6. Choose Your Tribe Wisely.
Behavior is contagious. So is mediocrity.
Surround yourself with folks who challenge you, not coddle you.
Your circle should push you to play bigger, not validate your smallest self.


Now, for the Sales Managers and VPs:

If your team is inconsistent with prospecting… it’s not a discipline problem. It’s a negotiation problem.

Your reps aren’t just dialing numbers.
They’re negotiating attention. Trust-based Influence. Time. Truth.

And most of them are winging it.
That’s why deals stall. Prospects disappear. Pipelines flatline.

Prospecting is a negotiation.
So, if your team doesn’t know how to negotiate early and often, they’re losing the deal before it even starts.

Here’s the fix:

Train them in negotiation—right where it counts:
Prospecting.

This isn’t theory. It’s a practical, high-impact class designed for your 5–6 reps who are ready to step up.

They’ll walk away able to:

  • Start conversations that unfold truth-telling by the prospect
  • Get real responses to vague objections
  • Create urgency without pressure
  • Turn “just checking in” into “let’s move forward.”

https://www.exceptionalsales.com/unlock-your-potential-master-negotiation/

You’ll see testimonials, specifics, and next steps.

Call me directly to reserve your team’s spot. We customize the training to the exact objections your reps hear every day.

Because the question isn’t if your prospects are talking. It’s who they’re talking to.


Salespeople: 
Ready to stop forcing discipline and start building self-respect that actually fuels prospecting?
Start with one promise. One calendar block. One call. Then repeat.
If you knew that investing in a 1:1 coach would significantly improve your sales, would you inquire? Are you opposed to giving me a call?

Sales leaders:
If your reps are prospecting without negotiation skills, you’re leaving deals on the table.

Give me a call and let’s talk about nitty gritty measurable specifics.

Sales Call Reluctance vs. Prospecting Resistance: Are They Twins or Total Opposites?

Sales Call Reluctance is the internal hesitation or emotional discomfort a salesperson feels about initiating contact with potential buyers. It is an inner psychological barrier, fueled by hidden fears, embarrassment, rejection, or failure. This reluctance can make talented salespeople avoid critical business-building activities, following up, staying pleasant and ethically persistent, or asking for the business directly.

Sales Call Reluctance is emotional. It’s internal and psychological. “I’m uncomfortable.”

Prospecting Resistance points to external factors – the practical challenges or lack of skill around prospecting. It involves resistance due to confusion about whom to call, uncertainty about qualifying prospects and leads, lack of strategic methods or simply ineffective prospecting practices. This type of resistance occurs because salespeople don’t feel clear, confident, and equipped about how to prospect effectively.

Prospecting Resistance is factual. It’s external and skills-based:

1) Lack of clarity about who to approach and why.

2) Struggling to articulate the value clearly to prospects.

3) Unsure of their ideal client or niche.

4) Ineffective, outdated or random prospecting strategies, consistent confusion or questions about prospecting methods.

Sales Call Reluctance Coaching includes:

Awareness Coaching: Use of SPQ Assessment to identify exactly the type of emotional hesitation the salespeople are experiencing.

Identify Untrue Limiting Assumptions Believed To Be True: Recognize the assumptions fueling their reluctance.

Proven Customized Techniques and Strategies: Customization according to the client’s specific needs. Making prospecting more of a pull than a push.

Empathy-Driven Prospecting and Selling: Train them on how to use Tactical Empathy*, which is articulating how the prospect is thinking and feeling about their problem without agreeing, disagreeing or sympathizing.

Prospecting Resistance Coaching requires tailored coaching:

Skills Training: Equip salespeople with straightforward, proven, relevant 2025 methods for prospecting, lead generation, and qualifying opportunities.

Strategy Alignment: Help them define their ideal client profile, including clearly defining who is not their ideal client and the negotiable and non-negotiables. How to identify the genuine prospect vs. the vaguely interested prospect.

Role-Play and Practice: Provide structured practice sessions to reinforce effective prospecting behaviors until these methods become second nature. Every salesperson needs to have a compelling value proposition that includes solving the prospect’s unique problem. They don’t stop practicing until it feels natural, and they can articulate it beautifully.

Process Clarification: Introduce simple, repeatable prospecting frameworks, script formulas, and templates to eliminate guesswork in prospecting activity.Appreciation and Encouragement: Consistently notice salespeople doing what moves them forward and acknowledge it. Notice what is good and say it. The human mind works best in the presence of appreciation. Be succinct, sincere, and specific.

Appreciation and Encouragement: Consistently notice salespeople doing what moves them forward and acknowledge it. Notice what is good and say it. The human mind works best in the presence of appreciation. Be succinct, sincere, and specific.

The Truth About Sales Call Reluctance and How to Break Free

I recently received a love note from one of my subscribers. It was anonymous because nothing screams bravery quite like hiding behind an angry email. They wrote, and I quote, “Salespeople who have Sales Call Reluctance are weak.” Ooh, spicy!

Now, normally, I’d file that under “Fan Mail from Admirers Who Need a Hug,” but this particular gem inspired me. Yes, Anonymous, your tantrum turned into my teachable moment. Thanks to you, I now get to clarify exactly what Sales Call Reluctance is, clear up some misconceptions.

So, as you hide behind your keyboard fortress, thank you, Mystery Critic! You’ve given us all the priceless gift of clarity, served with a delightful side of irony.

Official Definition of Sales Call Reluctance™

Sales Call Reluctance is the emotional hesitation to proactively prospect and promote on a consistent basis. It stems from hidden fears, doubt, avoidance, procrastination, and untrue limiting assumptions salespeople/financial advisors/recruiters hold about themselves, selling, and the prospecting dynamic.

Misconception 1: Call Reluctance = Weakness Wrong. Flat-out wrong. The truth? Some of the most conscientious and high-integrity salespeople experience this significant reluctance. Why? Because they care. It is a psychological issue, not a character flaw. So calling them weak is like saying people with stage fright shouldn’t perform – when in fact, they might just need a better warm up.

Misconception 2: They’ll grow out of it. Spoiler alert: They won’t. This isn’t puberty! Sales Call Reluctance doesn’t magically vanish with time and a few extra training sessions. It requires a diagnosis that addresses their core hesitation and intentional, structured coaching.

Misconception 3: It’s just picking up the phone and cold calling. The real danger is thinking it’s all about phone fear. It isn’t. It is about how salespeople perceive risk, identity, and rejection. There is a Big Difference. Sales Call Reluctance encompasses 16 ways salespeople hesitate. Some people perceive the “Call” as just using the telephone to prospect. Telephobia, fear of using the phone, is one of the 16 types and the easiest to overcome.

Misconception 4: They just need more training. Not quite: This isn’t a skill issue – it’s an identity issue. When a salesperson hesitates to prospect, it’s often because deep down, they don’t see themselves as someone who confidently shares the value of their product or service. Until that changes, no amount of technique will stick.

Misconception 5: Just use a better script. You mean use the top producer’s script? Scripts only work when they’re crafted from the salesperson’s own language, style, and story. Otherwise, it sounds fake, and prospects can smell “fake” faster than they can spot an AI-generated email.

Misconception 6: Call Reluctance only shows up during prospecting activity. Oh, no, no. This sneaky little gremlin shows up everywhere — in meetings, discovery calls, follow-ups, and even when a salesperson wants to ask a happy client for a referral. It’s not just reluctance to initiate contact – it’s hesitation to go deeper in uncovering the impact of the prospect’s problem, to qualify and ascertain whether this is a genuine prospect or someone who is vaguely interested. It’s tiptoeing around the close – building up to it, then pulling back at the last second, silently hoping the prospect will do the heavy lifting and close themselves.

How do I help salespeople break free from their Sales Call Reluctance?

My approach is grounded in clearly identifying the source of the hesitation using the SPQ Assessment, the only assessment in the world that measures the 16 reluctance types. It is a highly credible diagnostic with 45+ years of research and is psychometrically calibrated to measure the salesperson’s ability to build their clientele.

Once correctly diagnosed, the second step is to engage in a psychologically safe conversation in which the salesperson can be honest and vulnerable, admitting that they have fear-driven behaviors, and replace them with productive mindsets and habits that genuinely build confidence. I diagnose precisely and intervene decisively.

When salespeople discover and truly embrace empathy, understanding that their role is not to convince someone but to serve and problem-solve for their prospect, their reluctance shifts dramatically. We reframe prospecting from a daunting task into a meaningful human connection. The magic happens when salespeople stop asking, “Will I get rejected?” and ask, “Who can I help solve their problem?” Empathy dissolves reluctance. This is a purpose-driven mindset. I help people rewrite their internal narratives. It is not about “what to say,” but about ” who they believe themselves to be.”

It probably feels like I’m about to blast you with a hard close! That is totally fair. That is a classic concern because this is actually a soft open to something that could change your close rate forever.

Ready to break free from Sales Call Reluctance?

Let’s be honest. You know prospecting is the lifeblood of your business.

The SPQ Assessment is a precision tool built to expose sneaky mental habits that prevent you from prospecting confidently. It is the prospecting EKG without the gown and awkward waiting room silence.

You’ll get:

The SPQ Assessment A personal debrief so revealing, you’ll feel like you’ve just been handed the remote control to your own momentum.

A 60-minute 1:1 coaching call with me, Connie, to shift you from stuck to strategic, for just $295

Let’s do the math: $295 to finally stop ghosting your potential?

Or continue slow-dancing with mediocrity while your competition closes your ideal clients? Call or email!

Because the truth is… if you’re not in control of your reluctance, it’s in control of you. Let’s change that.

To your prospecting success,

Sales Call Reluctance is a trademark of Behavior Sciences Research Press, Dallas, TX.

I have been a licensee in good standing for 28 years.

*Tactical Empathy is defined by Chris Voss in Never Split the Difference.

From Hesitation to Outreach: Turn Assumptions into Opportunities

Isn’t it true that when you first ventured into sales or launched your business, you started with the assumption that success was inevitable? Yet, along the way, we often fall into the trap of untrue assumptions that limit us. The good news? Just as assumptions can hold us back, they can also empower us—when we choose to assume the best.

Have you ever noticed how easily assumptions creep into your prospecting activity? Just as you’re about to prospect, a little voice whispers:

“They won’t be interested.”
“They’ll brush me off.”
“They already love their current vendor.”

These assumptions don’t just slow you down—they suffocate your brilliance and sabotage your success. But here’s the liberating truth: untrue, limiting assumptions are not reality.

They are shortcuts your mind takes when it feels insecure or rushed. And here’s the good news: when you create space to pause and think clearly, you can challenge and replace those sabotaging assumptions with credible, liberating assumptions. Pause and Think Time and again, I’ve seen this: when you pause to reflect, you rediscover your clarity, courage, and creativity. Prospecting is no different. To prospect successfully, you need to free your mind from untrue assumptions.

Before your next outreach, ask yourself:

What am I assuming right now?Is it true?

What might I assume instead to keep moving forward?

Too often, salespeople falter—not because their product isn’t worthy or their service isn’t valuable, but because they’re held captive by unexamined assumptions. These assumptions, if persisted in, will harden into self-fulling prophecies.

You assume the call will be ignored. You assume the prospect will say no. You assume rejection is waiting, and you hesitate. These are not facts. They are shadows of doubt you’ve chosen to entertain—and they are stealing your power.

Your Business Is a Treasure Trove of Opportunity

Let me remind you: your business is a treasure trove of opportunity. The product or service you offer has the power to change lives, solve problems, and deliver immense value. But first, you must believe this truth about yourself and your offering.

Your concept of yourself is where the real treasure lies. When you see yourself as someone who brings value, builds trust, and delivers solutions, this belief transforms how you show up. It shapes how others see you, making your confidence and clarity irresistible.

Shaping Your Reality Your assumptions shape your reality. Assume failure, and you’ll hesitate, stumble, and meet resistance. But assume success, and you’ll act with energy, optimism, and courage. Before every call, ask yourself:

What if the person I’m about to contact is considering options?
What if they’ve been wanting the solution I provide?

Practical Steps to Transform Your Prospecting

Pause and Visualize Success Before picking up the phone or writing an email:

Affirm Your Value Tell yourself: “I bring immense value to prospects I connect with. I am their guide, their helper, their solution.”

Detach from the Outcome Rejection of your outreach isn’t personal—it’s often about timing or priorities. Assume this: the right opportunities will flow to you as you stay persistent and confident.

Act with Faith Prospecting is an act of faith. You can’t control every outcome, but you can plant seeds. Trust that every call and effort builds momentum toward your success.

Your Business, Your Treasure Every time you hesitate, ask:

What am I assuming right now? If your assumption is rooted in fear or doubt, replace it with this empowering thought:

“What if I am eager to assume my business is a treasure trove of opportunity?”

If you knew every prospecting session would lead to a qualified appointment, how would you show up?

Remember: the treasure isn’t just in your product or service—it’s in your self-concept and your knowing your value. The more you believe in you and your success, the more others will see it, feel it, and respond to it. Your results will always mirror your assumptions. So go forth, assume boldly, and prospect with the confidence of someone destined to succeed.

To your prospecting success,

What is Sales Call Reluctance?

Sales Call Reluctance™ is more than a simple aversion to calling; it’s a complex barrier that often paralyzes salespeople, resulting in lost revenue and unmet potential. Beyond fear of rejection, Sales Call Reluctance includes perfectionism as procrastination, where reps over-prepare instead of making calls, and a crippling internal critic that undermines their confidence. This reluctance can be intensified by a perceived misalignment between sales tactics and personal values, such as avoiding assertiveness to not seem “pushy.” Additionally, high-value prospects are frequently left untapped as salespeople gravitate toward “safer” leads, limiting the quality of their pipeline.

For managers, recognizing these obstacles is key to empowering their team. Traditional incentives fail because they don’t address the root emotional drivers of reluctance—fear, self-doubt, and burnout. Sales managers can create a supportive environment where reps feel safe acknowledging their challenges and developing self-awareness. Building resilience through targeted coaching, encouraging personal goal alignment, and promoting emotional intelligence can transform Sales Call Reluctance into proactive engagement.

Encouraging salespeople to focus on the value they bring, rather than fearing the outcome, shifts their mindset. When reps feel confident in their worth, they can approach prospects with genuine interest, overcoming hesitations. The path to overcoming Sales Call Reluctance requires more than scripts and incentives; it involves cultivating an environment where fear of rejection is neutralized, and confidence is built, allowing each rep to fully leverage their opportunities.

Sales Call Reluctance is the emotional hesitation to proactively prospect and self-promote. It has a first cousin — Close Reluctance, which is when salespeople hesitate to ask for the business, call the prospect into action and close the sale.

Sales Call Reluctance is a registered trademark of Behavioral Sciences Research Press (BSRP). Connie Kadansky has been a licensed rep of BSRP for 29 years.

Hidden Assumptions Sabotage Prospecting Activity

What if one of your core assumptions about prospecting is the very thing holding you back from unparalleled success? Imagine the impact if that assumption —one you’ve held onto for years—was proven wrong. How much could your results improve? How much could your career transform, leading to a future of unprecedented success and achievement?

Think back to a time when you discovered you were completely wrong about a prospect or a sales situation. Remember the shock, the recalibration, and the breakthrough that followed? Now, imagine experiencing that level of clarity daily. What if you could erase your deepest fears and doubts about proactive prospecting, clearing the path to extraordinary performance?

I invite you to explore a concept that could revolutionize your approach to prospecting: the limiting and untrue assumptions lurking in your mind. Picture your mind as a garden. Every thought you cultivate is a seed that determines the quality of your harvest. Now, consider this: some seeds are weeds—limiting and untrue assumptions that choke out your potential.

These are the assumptions that whisper: “I’m bothering people if I call them.””They won’t buy from me.””They’re happy with their current vendor.” These aren’t just pesky distractions; they’re powerful barriers that keep you from thriving in your new business development journey. But what if you could challenge these assumptions and uproot them for good?

Let’s break it down:

“I’m bothering people if I call them.” Is this true, or could your call be the exact solution they’ve been searching for or they know someone who needs your solution right now?

“They won’t buy from me.” Are you certain? Or is this an unfounded fear that’s stopping you from building valuable connections and learning from every interaction?

“They love their current provider.” Do you really know that? Or is this assumption keeping you from discovering the one thing that could make them switch and finding new solutions?

Here’s the liberating truth: challenging these false assumptions makes room for new, empowering beliefs. Imagine replacing “I’m bothering people” with “I’m offering them an opportunity to solve a problem they might not even know they have.” Or swapping “They won’t buy” with “Every conversation is a chance to learn and grow.”

When you clear these mental weeds, you free yourself to prospect with confidence and purpose. Top producers know that success isn’t just about skill—it’s about mindset. It’s about thinking clearly, creatively, and without constraint.

So, here’s my challenge to you: identify one limiting belief that’s holding you back. Ask yourself, “Is this really true?” If it’s not, consider how shifting your perspective could turn prospecting into a game of curiosity and discovery. Are you ready to break free from fears sabotaging your new business development success?

Imagine a life where your prospecting isn’t weighed down by doubts, fears, and limiting beliefs—where every call and meeting is an opportunity for growth and success. I’m offering an impactful one-hour thinking session designed specifically for sales professionals like you who are struggling with Sales Call Reluctance.

For just $150, you’ll step into a safe, confidential space where you can confront the assumptions that are costing you big bucks, draining your energy, and causing those dreaded Monday morning blues.

Why This Session is Worth Far More Than $150 Sales Call Reluctance is more than a fear—it’s a career-ending barrier if left unaddressed.

This session will help you uncover and challenge the assumptions holding you back, freeing you to approach prospects confidently.Consider this—how many sales opportunities are you missing because of unaddressed fears? By investing $150 in this session, you could unlock thousands of dollars in lost revenue, making this a small price to pay for a massive return on investment.Imagine walking away from this session with a new, empowering belief that transforms your approach to sales. You’ll see a boost in your performance, energy, and enthusiasm.

What You’ll Get: 60 Minutes of Focused Insight: We’ll dive deep into the specific assumption that is most holding you back.

A Safe, Confidential Space: I create an environment where you can feel safe, vulnerable, and trusting as you explore what’s really going on beneath the surface.

Actionable Takeaways: By the end of our time together, you’ll leave with a liberating new assumption that empowers you to confidently move forward.

Invest in Your Future Success Text me at 602-380-5431 with 1) Your name, 2) A brief note on why the time is right for you to stop letting untrue, limiting assumptions sabotage your career, and 3) Request that I call you to schedule your session. I’m eager to help you take this transformative step.

Ready to challenge your assumptions and discover a new path to success? Let’s get started. Already crushing your prospecting game? Feel free to pass this offer to anyone who could use a boost to overcome their prospecting struggles.

Freedom Through Discipline

Discipline often carries an unfair reputation, perceived as a constraint that stifles creativity and spontaneity. Yet, this perspective misses a crucial truth: discipline is not a set of rigid rules but a powerful tool that creates a structured environment where true freedom can thrive.

Consider discipline as the framework of a house. Without walls and a roof, a house collapses under its own weight and the chaos of the elements. Similarly, without discipline, our prospecting efforts can become scattered and ineffective. Discipline provides the boundaries to safely explore and expand our new business development activity.

As Rick Rubin beautifully puts it in his book The Creative Act: The Way of Being, ‘Discipline is not a lack of freedom; it is a harmonious relationship with time. In sales, time is a precious resource. By dedicating specific times for prospecting, follow-ups, strategy, and reflection, we transform time from a fleeting, uncontrollable force into a resource we can direct and utilize. This is the power of discipline in making sure we have appointments on the calendar for new business weekly.

Discipline and freedom are not opposites but partners. Discipline offers the stability and structure needed to engage deeply with our new business development activities. At the same time, freedom is the state of mind we achieve when our time and efforts are used effectively. When discipline is internalized, it becomes a natural rhythm that supports our productivity, allowing us to work freely within the boundaries we’ve set.

Take the example of a top-performing salesperson who adheres to a daily routine of prospecting activity. This disciplined practice is not a constraint but a gateway to freedom. Through consistent effort, they build the skills and confidence to approach potential clients effortlessly and express their value proposition fully. The discipline of a daily routine creates a foundation upon which their creative problem-solving and relationship-building skills can flourish.

In essence, discipline in sales is about committing to our craft and respecting the time it requires. It’s about creating a balanced partnership between structure and spontaneity, each enhancing the other. By embracing discipline, we are not limiting our freedom; we are cultivating the conditions necessary for true liberation in our sales efforts.

Discipline transforms our relationship with time, making it an ally rather than an adversary. It provides a structured environment for experimentation, innovation, and, ultimately, success. By understanding that discipline and freedom are partners, salespeople can unlock their true potential and achieve lasting success.

What if you choose to experience your prospecting activity as an experiment?  If you knew your prospecting would uncover opportunities, how would you think, feel and what would you do?

If you are struggling with filling your pipeline with qualified prospects and setting appointments, You don’t have to face this alone. Enrolling in my 8-day free email course will give you the support and guidance to shift from struggling to finding cadence in your prospecting efforts. This course is designed for you to work independently every day for eight days. You’ll receive an email every morning with a couple of questions to answer.

You will learn what to do to move away from the prospecting struggle.

Here’s what you will learn:

1.      The Truth Behind Sales Call Reluctance.

2.      The Emotional Drive Behind Prospecting Success.

3.      The Imposters that Sabotage Your Prospecting Efforts.

4.      Why Fear of Rejection Isn’t the Root Cause

5.      Transforming Fear into Confidence.

6.      Overcoming Telephobia: The Secret of Sensory Injection

7.      A Proven Solution Transform Your Prospecting Approach

You may be wondering where the testimonials are. Well, guess what? This is a grand experiment. I have been training and coaching salespeople in diverse industries for 25+ years and have decided to provide incredible value through a free course. I am inviting you to join me in this scientific experiment on cause and effect.

Let’s get started. It’s simple:

1.      Click the “Start Now” link. Start Now

2.      Commit to the 8-day email course

Your success is in your hands. Be 100% committed and ready for change; I promise you’ll see the difference.

Click here only if you are “all in.”  Start Now Start Now

Already crushing your prospecting game? Feel free to pass this offer to anyone who could use a boost to overcome their prospecting struggles.

Conquer this career-zapping habit!

Signs of Sales Call Reluctance

Ah, the mysterious and often misunderstood world of Sales Call Reluctance, a realm where even the bravest souls find themselves pondering, hesitating, and sometimes, downright evading. But fear not, dear sales pros, for within this tale of procrastination and avoidance lies the seed of inspiration, a call to action if you will. Let’s embark on a journey to understand the signs and more importantly to conquer them:

  1. Your alarm goes off, and instead of bounding out of bed, armed with enthusiasm to conquer the sales world, you find yourself humming the blues, secretly hoping that your sales targets will magically achieve themselves. Consider this your wake-up call—not the one that jolts you from sleep, but the one that ignites a spark to change your approach.
  2. Your productivity outside of sales is off the charts. Your mom is up to speed on every detail of your life, your hair could be featured in a shampoo commercial, and your dog? Well, he’s starting to think he’s in boot camp with all the walks. Yet, the thought of making a sales call gets a “maybe later.” How about we redirect some of that energy? Your dog could use a break, and your prospects could use a call.
  3. Your call list has morphed into a “creative reasons to delay” list. You find yourself concocting scenarios like, “What if they’re having lunch. . . in another time zone?” or “Is it possible to be allergic to sales calls?” It’s time to challenge those fears with a dose of humor and a strategy to make the first call. After all, laughter is a great icebreaker.
  4. Deep down, you feel like your mind plays hide and seek the moment you need to make a call, diving into anything and everything, from the latest news to yesterday’s sports scores. It’s time to play a new game, one where you seek out connections and conversations with your prospective clients.
  5. You find yourself contemplating existential questions more often than dialing numbers, wondering if you’re really cut out to be a salesperson or if you’ve missed your true calling as a philosopher of Sales Call Reluctance. Here’s a thought: Why not be both? Use your philosophical musings to connect on a deeper level with your prospective clients and yourself.

Sales Call Reluctance is indeed no laughing matter, but tackling it doesn’t have to be a dreary process. Embrace the humor, the quirks, and the human moments. Remember, the journey to overcoming Sales Call Reluctance is not just about making calls; it’s about breaking down barriers, building confidence and discovering your unique voice.

Living with Call Reluctance is a choice, and so is overcoming it. There are paths paved by those who’ve gone before, strategies testing by time, and solutions designed to lift you over the hurdles. So, if you find yourself singing the blues, dodging the calls, and questioning your path, know that it’s within your power to change the tune, pick up the phone and embark on a journey of transformation.

Let this be your moment of inspiration, a nudge to turn reluctance into resilience, hesitation into action. Your future clients are out there, waiting for that call, ready to be inspired by what you have to offer. And who knows? In the process, you just might discover that you are indeed a sales pro poised to shine.